Do You Trust You? Then Hush the Critic Inside

The question being asked is: Do you trust you. As children, we were taught to trust others, we were taught to trust in God, we even were taught to trust in the job or career that we are associated with. But still, we wonder why things work out the way they do. Why certain things come out a particular way. We plan different things, but to no prevail the plan comes to nothing. We now have the thought after the fact, of why this happened to me. We start questioning trust itself. Looking for some kind of evidence of what we were taught was trustworthy. Now that there is no evidence been shown under the circumstances. We find ourselves in a place of not trusting anyone or anything.

Trust is defined as assured reliance on the character, ability, strength of someone or something (according to webster). Again, the question is asked, do you trust you. Are you kind and respectful to you regardless of the outcome? Do you have clarity and confidence in your decisions? How about speaking with authority, but not from the place of being arrogant. When we start trusting in ourselves, start realizing we are capable of doing whatever project that is set before us. Then we will not fall apart when things don’t go the way they suppose too. We must take a look at our intentions.

Watch what we are holding on to as a regret then forgive ourselves and move on. The same amount of energy put into forgiving others, let’s give ourselves the same compassion. Do you trust you? Take a look at that inner critic, understand it, get knowledge about it, and stand up to it. Make a shift in your relationship with the critic. Remove yourself from the distrust and fear of self and grow stronger.

The present moment is where we need to be. Being fully present is where our focus should take up residences. The critic holds your attention to fear and problems, and it wants you to see disasters. You have to handle that inner critic, free yourself to become advance in trusting you. Start working with the critic to bring about the breakthrough you seek.